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3 John Commentary

                             
The Three Men Of Third John (1-14)
 
I. THE THREE MEN OF THIRD JOHN
 
   A. GAIUS -- A MAN WHOM JOHN WOULD HAVE PROSPER (1-8)
      1. A dear friend of John, whom he prayed would prosper physically
         as well as he did spiritually - 3 Jn 1-2
      2. John so loved and prayed for Gaius, because he was a man 
         who...
         a. Had a good reputation - 3 Jn 3a
         b. Walked in the truth - 3 Jn 3b
         c. Gave John great joy when hearing of his faithfulness - 
            3 Jn 4
         d. Was hospitable toward all - 3 Jn 5-6a
         e. Was encouraged to continue supporting gospel preachers - 
            3 Jn 6b-8
 
   B. DIOTREPHES -- A MAN WHO WOULD BE PREEMINENT (9-11)
      1. A description of Diotrephes' character...
         a. Self-promoter -- he strove to be first - 3 Jn 9a
         b. Insubordinate -- he would not receive the [authority of] 
            apostles - 3 Jn 9b
         c. Slanderous -- He spoke nonsense, and slandered - 3 Jn 10a
         d. Vindictive -- He would not receive certain brethren, and 
            cast out other brethren - 3 Jn 10b
      2. Diotrephes' character serves as a warning:  "he who does evil
         has not seen God" - 3 Jn 11b
 
   C. DEMETRIUS -- A MAN WHO WOULD BE A PATTERN (11-12)
      1. John encourages Gaius to imitate what is good, for he who does
         good is of God - 3 Jn 11
      2. Demetrius appears to be offered as a pattern for Gaius, for
         Demetrius had a good report... - 3 Jn 12
         a. From all the brethren
         b. From the truth itself ("Demetrius lived according to the 
            mandates of God's Word so that his life showed clear 
            evidence of the truth" - Kistemaker)
         c. From John and the apostles
 
[Thus we have these pen portraits of three men preserved in this 
letter, giving us some insight into the life of the early church.
There were some good men (Gaius, Demetrius), but sadly there were some
bad as well (Diotrephes).
 
Not much different today, is it?  That being the case, then perhaps we 
should remember these...]
 
II. LESSONS FROM THIRD JOHN
 
   A. CHRISTIANS ARE NOT ALWAYS WHAT THEY SHOULD BE...
      1. We may have to serve in the face of opposition from other 
         brethren
      2. Will we allow this to effect our service?
      3. Will we allow this to effect our salvation?
 
   B. CHRISTIANS OFTEN IMITATE OTHER CHRISTIANS...
      1. John says to imitate what is good for two reasons:
         a. Those who do good are of God
         b. Those who do evil do not know God
      2. What example are we setting in the local church?  Who are we
         imitating?
      3. Gaius had the example of Diotrephes and Demetrius.  Who do you
         suppose he would seek to imitate?
   
   C. CHRISTIANS OFTEN ALLOW THE "SPIRIT OF DIOTREPHES" TO REIGN...
      1. Diotrephes was successful because some of the members...
         a. Allowed Diotrephes to dominate
         b. Would not take a stand for the truth
         c. Would not support those who took a stand for the truth
      2. Diotrephes was successful because there was a certain climate
         of complacency and cowardice within the local church
      3. NOTE:  That Diotrephes was able to get away with his 
         domination strongly suggests to me that Gaius and Diotrephes
         were not members of the same congregation, but in different
         congregations
 
CONCLUSION
 
1. We will consider some more truths that can be gleaned from this 
   epistle in the next couple of lessons
 
2. But I hope that this introduction to this epistle and a brief look 
   at "The Three Men Of Third John" will stimulate our thinking...
   a. What kind of example are we setting?
   b. If John had written a letter in which your name was mentioned,
      what would he have said about you?
      1) Would he have prayed for your prosperity?
      2) Would he have condemned your desire for prominence?
      3) Or would he have set you up as a pattern for others to follow?
   c. If we will but "walk in the truth" like Gaius, we will have a 
      good "testimony" from all like Demetrius!
 
NOTE: A special thanks to Chris Reeves (CHREEVES@aol.com) and his 
Expandable Outlines #37 (THREE MEN OF THIRD JOHN), from which I
borrowed heavily in preparing this outline.

 

Spiritual And Material Prosperity (2-4)
 
INTRODUCTION
 
1. We saw in our previous study that Third John is an epistle addressed
   to Gaius, a man whom John would have prosper:
 
   "Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in
   health, just as your soul prospers" - 3 Jn 2
 
2. In this verse, John alludes to two kinds of prosperity:
   a. There is spiritual prosperity ("just as your soul prospers")
   b. And there is material prosperity ("that you may prosper in all 
      things and be in health")
 
3. The manner in which John mentions and compares these two kinds of 
   prosperity is interesting, and raises several questions worth 
   considering:
   a. What are the signs of spiritual prosperity?
   b. What is the propriety of praying for material prosperity?
   c. Would we want John to pray such a prayer for us?
 
[These questions we shall attempt to answer in this lesson.  Beginning
with the first question, we need go no further than the context of 
Third John...]
 
I. THE SIGNS OF SPIRITUAL PROSPERITY
 
   A. THE TRUTH IS ABIDING IN YOU...
      1. John rejoiced greatly when he heard from others of how the 
         "truth" was in Gaius - 3 Jn 3a
      2. That the "truth" was in Gaius was one indication that his soul
         was prosperous
      3. What does it mean to have the "truth" in you?  Two 
         possibilities:
         a. It could refer to the abiding of Jesus in one's soul, as He
            is the truth - cf. Jn 14:6
         b. It could refer to the incorporation into our very heart and
            soul the teachings and principles of the gospel of Jesus
         -- It pretty much means the same thing, for the latter brings
            about the former - cf. Jn 14:21-23; 1 Jn 3:24
      4. A prosperous soul, then, is one in which...
         a. One's heart and mind has opened itself up to receive all 
            that Jesus taught
         b. One is feeding daily upon the Word of God, whereby 
            spiritual growth is possible - 1 Pe 2:2
 
   B. YOU ARE WALKING IN THE TRUTH...
      1. John could also joyfully write of Gaius "walking in the truth"
         - 3 Jn 3b-4
      2. In a sense, there is a mixing of metaphors here
         a. The truth abides in Gaius
         b. Gaius walks in the truth
         -- Perhaps that simply illustrates the limitation of human 
            language to describe spiritual realities
      3. The point to be made, however, is this:  for there to be 
         prosperity, there must be progress
         a. It is not enough to simply sit and say "I have the truth in
            my soul"
         b. One must be acting upon it, living according to it, as 
            illustrated by Jesus in His sermon on the mount - cf. Mt 7:
            24-27
         c. True blessedness comes in being a "doer" and not just a
            "hearer" - Ja 1:22-25; Jn 13:17
 
[Spiritual prosperity occurs as one feeds upon the truth of God found
only in His Son Jesus Christ, and lives his or her life in harmony with
that truth.  So Gaius prospered in his soul, and so can we!
 
Gaius' need was not spiritual prosperity, it evidently was material
prosperity. This brings up the question of...]
 
II. THE PROPRIETY OF PRAYING FOR MATERIAL PROSPERITY
 
   A. JOHN'S PRAYER FOR GAIUS...
      1. John thought it proper to pray for things other than spiritual
         needs - 3 Jn 2
         a. "that you may prosper in all good things"
         b. "and be in good health"
      2. Whether it be family, business, or personal health, it is 
         proper to pray that God might bless us in these areas
 
   B. JOHN WAS FOLLOWING THE EXAMPLE SET BY OTHERS...
      1. The example of the Psalmist - cf. Ps 144:12-15
      2. The example of our Lord - Mt 6:11 ("Give us this day our 
         daily bread")
 
   C. THE CHALLENGE IS KEEPING IT IN PROPER PERSPECTIVE...
      1. If our desire for material prosperity is for personal gain,
         then we should not expect God to answer favorably - cf. Ja 4:
         2-4
      2. But there can be altruistic reasons for praying for material
         prosperity:
         a. We can pray for health, that one might live longer to serve
            the Lord in this life
         b. We can pray for success in business, that we might have the
            means to help others
         c. We can pray for peace, that we might further the spread of
            the gospel
      3. Of course, it is much easier to pray with prosper perspective
         when it is others we are praying for, and not ourselves (as is
         the case in our text!)
 
[That brings us to a few final observations I would like to make 
concerning...]
 
III. MATERIAL PROSPERITY IN RELATION TO SPIRITUAL PROSPERITY
 
   A. "...JUST AS YOUR SOUL PROSPERS"
      1. John prays that Gaius prosper materially just as he does 
         spiritually
      2. In view of Gaius' spiritual prosperity (the truth abides in
         him, he walks in the truth), this prayer if answered would be
         a blessing to Gaius
      3. Would we want God to answer such a prayer in our behalf?  To
         the degree that our souls prosper...
         a. Would we want Him to bless our physical bodies?
         b. Would we want Him to bless our families, our homes, our 
            jobs, our nation?
      4. I dare say that in light of the spiritual condition of some
         Christians, such a prayer answered in their behalf would be a
         curse, not a blessing!
 
   B. MATERIAL PROSPERITY IS GOOD, BUT SPIRITUAL PROSPERITY IS ETERNAL
      1. As Paul writes, godliness has "promise of the life that now is
         and of that which is to come" - 1 Ti 4:7-8; 6:6-7
      2. We can't take material prosperity with us, and it takes 
         spiritual prosperity on our part (i.e., wisdom from God) to 
         properly use the material blessings we have - 1 Ti 6:8-10,
         17-19
 
CONCLUSION
 
1. So while we may certainly pray for our material prosperity, may we
   never lose sight of the fact that our greatest need is spiritual
   prosperity which lasts forever
 
2. Concentrate your efforts on prospering spiritually, and may the Lord
   in His Divine wisdom and grace bless you in all other ways
   accordingly!
 
Are you walking in the truth?  Is the truth abiding in you?  Heed the
call of the gospel today if you have not already... - cf. Mk 16:15-16;
Ac 2:36-38

 

Supporting Ministers Of The Gospel (5-8)
 
INTRODUCTION
 
1. In writing to Gaius, John has referred to his joy of hearing that
   Gaius is "walking in the truth" - 3 Jn 3-4
 
2. An area of Gaius' life in which this was especially true was in
   showing hospitality to traveling ministers - 3 Jn 5-8
 
3. In Second John, we saw the "danger" of receiving and supporting
   those teachers who do not proclaim the doctrine of Christ - cf. 2 Jn
   9-11
 
4. But here in Third John, we learn of the "good" that can be done when
   we receive and support those involved in the spreading of the gospel
 
5. In this study, we shall consider...
   a. The scriptural authority for supporting ministers of the gospel
   b. The reasons given by John for why we should be willing to do so
 
[Going outside of our text to other portions of Scripture, consider 
what we learn about...]
 
I. THE SCRIPTURAL AUTHORITY FOR SUPPORTING MINISTERS
 
   A. AS TAUGHT BY JESUS...
      1. Jesus Himself was dependent upon others for support as He went
         about preaching - Lk 8:1-3
      2. In sending out the twelve disciples, He taught that "a worker
         is worthy of his food" - cf. Mt 10:5-10
      3. In sending out the seventy, He said "the laborer is worthy of
         his wages" - cf. Lk 10:1-8
 
   B. AS TAUGHT BY PAUL...
      1. Though for personal reasons he generally chose not to accept
         it, Paul defended the right of supporting ministers - 1 Co 9:
         3-14
         a. Just as soldiers are not expected to support themselves 
            - 1 Co 9:7a
         b. Just as farmers and shepherds enjoy the fruits of their 
            labors - 1 Co 9:b
         c. Just as the Law illustrated with the command not to muzzle
            the ox that treads out the grain - 1 Co 9:8-10
         d. From the principle of reasonableness:  if one sows
            spiritual things, is it a great matter to reap material
            things? - 1 Co 9:11
         e. From the example of those serving in the temple who could
            partake of the offerings on the altar - 1 Co 9:13
         f. Even the Lord commanded:  "Those who preach the gospel
            should live of the gospel" (perhaps a reference to Mt 10:10
            and Lk 10:7) - 1 Co 9:14
         g. NOTE:  Paul chose not to receive such support under normal
            circumstances for the following reasons...
            1) It was one of the few areas in which he could boast
               - 1 Co 9:15
            2) He could not boast in preaching the gospel, for he had
               been divinely commissioned - 1 Co 9:16-17
               a) He must do it as a steward of Christ
               b) He had no choice if he were to be saved
               c) Such is not the case of those who preach today; 
                  unless the Lord appeared to us and commanded us to
                  preach (as He did with Paul), it is something we do
                  willingly and thereby have a reason to boast
            3) But, that Paul might have a reason to boast, a reward,
               he freely gave up his right (authority) to receive
               support in _most_ cases - 1 Co 9:18 (however cf. 2 Co
               11:7-9; Ph 4:10-16)
      2. Another passage by Paul suggesting the scripturalness of
         supporting teachers - Ga 6:6
 
[With the approval of Jesus and His apostle Paul, there should be no
question about the scripturalness of supporting ministers of the 
gospel.
 
As we return to our text (3 Jn 5-8),we find that John gives us six
reasons that ought to motivate us to do so...]
 
II. SCRIPTURAL MOTIVATION FOR SUPPORTING MINISTERS
 
   A. IT IS A TESTIMONY TO OUR FAITHFULNESS...
      1. John wrote of Gaius:  "Beloved, you do faithfully..." - 3 Jn 5
      2. When we show hospitality to brethren (and ministers), it 
         demonstrates our faithfulness to the teachings of Christ and
         His apostles
 
   B. IT IS A TESTIMONY TO OUR LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER...
      1. John said of those who had received Gaius' hospitality that
         they "...had borne witness of your love..." - 3 Jn 6a
      2. We demonstrate that we are keeping that "new" commandment
         first given to us by the Lord Himself - cf. Jn 13:34-35
      3. In light of the value of such love ("by this all will 
         know..."), we ought to be grateful for opportunities to bear
         witness of our love for the brethren
 
   C. IT HONORS GOD...
      1. John makes reference to sending such ministers on their 
         journey "in a manner worthy of God" - 3 Jn 6
      2. "worthy of God" means "as befits God"
      3. Thus the way in which we support ministers of God can be a 
         reflection upon God Himself
         a. If we do not consider His faithful ministers worthy of
            support, what do we think of God?
         b. If we honor and support those servants who faithfully
            proclaim His Word, it is because we honor and respect the
            One they serve!
 
   D. IT IS A TESTIMONY TO THE LOST...
      1. The ones Gaius was encouraged to support were those who were
         "taking nothing from the Gentiles" - 3 Jn 7
         a. This likely means they would not solicit support from the
            unsaved
         b. Depending instead upon their brethren
      2. When ministers of the gospel solicit help from those lost 
         souls they are trying to save, it sends a bad message
         a. Perhaps the ministers are in it just for the money...
         b. If what they taught was worth anything, why don't their own
            followers support it?
      3. When the gospel is offered free of cost, being supported 
         whole-heartedly by those who know it best, it can be a 
         powerful testimony of the value _we_ place on it!
 
   E. IT OBEYS GOD...
      1. John, by inspiration of the Spirit of God, tells us "We 
         therefore _ought_ to receive such" - 3 Jn 8a
      2. Thus, supporting ministers of the gospel is not only an 
         opportunity, but an obligation!
         a. Exhorted by Paul in Ga 6:6
         b. Exchange of material things for spiritual things considered
            reasonable by Paul in 1 Co 9:11; cf. also Ro 15:26-27
 
   F. IT MAKES ONE A FELLOW WORKER FOR THE TRUTH...
      1. As John concludes in verse 8:  "that we may become fellow 
         workers for the truth"
      2. When we support a teacher, we become co-workers in what they
         do
         a. If we support teachers of error, we share in their evil
            deeds - 2 Jn 10-11
         b. But when we support teachers of the gospel, we have 
            fellowship in their work - Ph 1:3-5; cf. 4:15-16
      3. As co-workers, we will one day enjoy the same rewards - cf. 
         Mt 10:40-42
 
CONCLUSION
 
1. So we not only have scriptural authority for supporting ministers of
   the gospel, but many reasons to do so!
 
2. The rapid spread of the gospel and growth of the early church was
   facilitated by such people as Gaius, along with...
   a. Aquila and Priscilla, who allowed the churches to meet in their
      homes - Ro 15:3-5a; 1 Co 16:19
   b. Philemon, who let the church meet in his house, and could be 
      called upon without hesitation to provide lodging for the apostle
      Paul - Phile 1-2, 22
 
3. Today, as walls tumble down that once stood preventing the free 
   course of the gospel, there is still a need to support those who 
   preach the gospel
 
May the spirit and liberality of Gaius fill the hearts of those 
Christians and churches who would be fellow workers for the truth!

 

The Spirit Of Diotrephes (9-10)
 
INTRODUCTION
 
1. In our study of Third John, we have noticed the commendable spirit
   found in Gaius...
   a. The truth was in him - 3 Jn 3
   b. He walked in the truth - 3 Jn 3-4
   c. He demonstrated love and hospitality towards the brethren and for
      strangers - 3 Jn 5-6
 
2. Unfortunately, another man mentioned in this letter did not possess
   the spirit of Gaius...
   a. His name was Diotrephes
   b. And John felt it necessary to relate what Diotrephes had done, 
      and what he (John) would have to do in response - 3 Jn 9-10
 
3. While there are many people today who possess the spirit of Gaius,
   and bless the Lord's church accordingly, it is not uncommon for 
   "The Spirit Of Diotrephes"...
   a. To be found in some churches
   b. To tear apart the love and unity that ought to prevail in every
      congregation
 
4. That we might be on guard against "The Spirit Of Diotrephes", in
   this lesson we shall...
   a. Identify exactly what characterized the spirit of Diotrephes
   b. Consider how it was so contrary to the principles taught by our
      Lord and His apostles
 
[We begin, then, by noticing that "The Spirit Of Diotrephes" was one
of...]
 
I. DESIRING PREEMINENCE (9a)
 
   A. IN THE CASE OF DIOTREPHES...
      1. John wrote that he "loves to have the preeminence"
      2. The word "preeminence" in the Greek is "philoproteuo" 
         {fil-op-rote-yoo'-o}
         a. It means to be fond of being first
         b. I.e., ambitious of distinction; love to have the 
            preeminence
      3. It was his love of being first (a sin in itself) that led to
         other sins that he committed
      4. Unfortunately, Diotrephes failed to consider that "sin" is
         spelled with a capital "I" (i.e., "self" is at the root of all
         sin)
 
   B. THE TEACHING OF THE SCRIPTURES...
      1. When the mother of James and John expressed a desire for her
         sons to be given preeminence, Jesus taught the principle of
         humility and service - Mt 20:20-28
      2. He did so again as he spoke out against the scribes and 
         Pharisees - Mt 23:6-12
      3. Paul taught that in matters of honor we should give preference
         to one another - Ro 12:10
      4. Indeed, we must not have the sort of selfish ambition found in
         Diotrephes, but the humble servitude found in the mind of 
         Christ - cf. Ph 2:2-8
      5. Whereas "sin" is spelled with a capital "I", the cross is an 
         "I" that has been crossed out! (i.e., denying "self" is a 
         cardinal principle of Christianity)
 
   C. HOW ABOUT TODAY?
      1. We live in the "me generation" where the spirit of Diotrephes
         reigns supreme
      2. It should not surprise us, when the church is so often 
         influenced by the world, to hear people say:
         a. "But I want..."
         b. "But I think..."
      3. But there is no room in the kingdom for the "me first" 
         mentality; where it exists, more sins and problems are bound
         to follow
 
[We see that to be the case as we notice that "The Spirit Of 
Diotrephes" was also one of...]
 
II. REJECTING APOSTOLIC AUTHORITY (9b)
 
   A. IN THE CASE OF DIOTREPHES...
      1. John writes simply: "[he] does not receive us"
      2. It may seem incredible that one would refuse to accept and 
         submit to...
         a. The disciple whom Jesus loved!
         b. An apostle of our Lord Jesus Christ!
      3. But because of his love to be first, there was no room in 
         Diotrephes' heart for someone over him in matters of authority
 
   B. THE TEACHING OF THE SCRIPTURES...
      1. It is important that we appreciate the proper chain of 
         authority in the kingdom...
         a. As Creator, God inherently has all authority
         b. However, the Father has delegated all authority to His Son 
            - Mt 28:18; Ep 1:20-22
         c. Jesus in turn has delegated authority to His apostles - Jn 
            13:20
            1) He sent the Holy Spirit to assist them, and guide them
               into all the truth - Jn 14:26; 16:12-13
            2) Thus they could speak and write with the authority of 
               God behind them - cf. 1 Co 14:37; 1 Th 2:13
      2. This is why we find that the early church "continued 
         steadfastly in the apostles' doctrine..." - Ac 2:42
 
   C. HOW ABOUT TODAY?
      1. The spirit of Diotrephes appears to reign unchecked in those 
         churches that reject...
         a. The authority of the apostles in preference for the 
            authority of their own councils, synods, or conferences
         b. The clear teachings of the apostles concerning such issues
            as homosexuality, women preachers, etc.
         c. Apostolic precedent (whether by command or example) to 
            authorize any church practice that suits their fancy
      2. And the spirit of Diotrephes reigns supreme in the lives of
         those professing Christians who reject the apostles' call for
         holy and sanctified living...
         a. So they can choose their own sexual preference and 
            lifestyle
         b. So they can put their own personal interests first, before
            the kingdom of God
 
[Yes, living in a narcissistic society such as ours, it is not uncommon
to find the spirit of Diotrephes present in so many peoples' lives.
 
When it is found in the lives of Christians, things can get ugly rather
quickly.  As we see in our text, "The Spirit Of Diotrephes" can 
manifest itself in Christians by...]
 
III. SPEAKING EVIL OF BRETHREN (10a)
 
   A. IN THE CASE OF DIOTREPHES...
      1. John relates that Diotrephes was guilty of "prating against us
         with malicious words"
      2. The word "prating" in the Greek is phluareo {floo-ar-eh'-o}...
         a. It means to be a babbler or trifler
         b. By implication it means to berate idly or mischievously
      3. The word "malicious" is poneros {pon-ay-ros'} and means
         "hurtful, evil"
      4. Diotrephes gave little concern, then, about how he spoke with
         evil and hurtful words concerning his brethren
 
   B. THE TEACHING OF THE SCRIPTURES...
      1. We will be judged for the idle words that we use - Mt 12:36-37
      2. We are commanded not to speak evil of one another - Ja 4:11-12
         a. To do so is to speak evil of the law of God!
         b. To do so is to set ourselves up as judges
      3. While it may be necessary at times to "rebuke" our brethren
         (cf. 2 Ti 4:2)...
         a. We are given the proper tools (i.e., the Scriptures 
            themselves) - 2 Ti 3:16
         b. We are instructed how to approach those in error - 2 Ti 2:
            24-26; Ga 6:1
 
   C. HOW ABOUT TODAY?
      1. Does not the spirit of Diotrephes manifest itself when 
         Christians engage in malicious gossip?
      2. Does not the spirit of Diotrephes reign when overzealous and
         self-appointed "guardians of the faith" lambaste their
         brethren with whom they differ?
      3. Indeed, it is often the desire for preeminence that prompts
         Christians to reject apostolic teachings concerning brotherly
         relations and to engage in malicious prating
 
[The use of malicious words are not the only weapons used by those
possessed by the spirit of Diotrephes, however.
 
If in their love for preeminence they have actually gained positions of
influence, it is not unusual to see "The Spirit Of Diotrephes
manifested in...]
 
IV. ABUSING CHURCH DISCIPLINE (10b)
 
   A. IN THE CASE OF DIOTREPHES...
      1. Not content with using prating with malicious words,
         Diotrephes is described as one who...
         a. "does not receive the brethren"
         b. "forbids those who wish to, putting them out of the church"
      2. In two ways, then, he was abusing church discipline...
         a. Refusing to associate with those worthy of association
         b. Using it as a weapon to manipulate others to do what he
            wanted
 
   B. THE TEACHING OF THE SCRIPTURES...
      1. Jesus taught there might be times when church discipline is
         necessary - Mt 18:15-17
      2. Paul described such a time on two occasions, and gave
         instructions for carrying it out
         a. When a man was living with his father's wife - 1 Co 5:1-13
         b. When Christians refused to work - 2 Th 3:6-15
      3. So there are times when we must "put away from yourselves that
         wicked person"
      4. But there is also the possibility of abusing this method of
         church discipline, as in the case of Diotrephes
 
   C. HOW ABOUT TODAY?
      1. That church discipline could be abused back then, means that
         it can be abused today
      2. This is not to be an excuse to never exercise church
         discipline, but to do so carefully
      3. Just because another church has carried it out against someone
         does not mean they did so properly...
         a. It may have been prompted as part of a power play by a
            "Diotrephes"
         b. The ones being withdrawn from may be innocent
         ...thus the need to exercise discretion and to know the facts
         before accepting the disciplinary action of another church
 
CONCLUSION
 
1. "The Spirit Of Diotrephes" can be summarized as one of...
   a. Desiring preeminence
   b. Rejecting apostolic authority
   c. Speaking evil of brethren
   d. Abusing church discipline
 
2. One must not have all four of these to be guilty of sin...
   a. Any one is an abomination before God!
   b. Any one can destroy brotherly relations!
 
May John's description of "The Spirit Of Diotrephes" serve as a 
warning for us!

 

Imitating The Good (11-12)
 
INTRODUCTION
 
1. After describing "the spirit of Diotrephes" in verses 9-10, John
   encourages his beloved Gaius to be careful about what he imitates:
 
   "Beloved, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good. He who does
   good is of God, but he who does evil has not seen God. Demetrius has
   a good testimony from all, and from the truth itself. And we also
   bear witness, and you know that our testimony is true." - 3 Jn 11-12
 
2. Following upon the condemnation of Diotrephes, and followed by the
   commendation of Demetrius, it is easy to infer...
   a. That John was warning Gaius not to be like Diotrephes
   b. And encouraging him instead to be like Demetrius
 
3. But why does John feel the need to exhort Gaius in this way?
   a. Haven't we seen that Gaius was a man whose soul was prosperous?
   b. Haven't we observed that he was walking in the truth?
   c. Haven't we noticed that he was commended for his hospitality?
   -- Wouldn't this make Gaius himself a man worthy of imitation?
 
4. Yes, and perhaps this should tell us something...
   a. About ourselves as imitators
   b. About the need for everyone to have good role models that we can
      imitate
 
[In this lesson, "Imitating The Good", I would like for us to reflect
on the idea of being imitators.
 
Let's begin by observing that...]
 
I. WE ARE NATURALLY IMITATORS
 
   A. CHILDREN IMITATE THEIR PARENTS...
      1. Especially in their early years, children seem to delight in
         imitating their parents
      2. They quickly pick up their parent's mannerisms:  the way they
         talk, walk, etc.
      3. It is as though there was some innate reason for them to 
         imitate mom and dad